Neglect, self-reliance, and being short-changed

There are many people in the world at the moment who sometimes feel neglected, because of their own inner feelings of neglect from lifetimes ago, including this one. What I want you to know about neglect is that it is an energy that affects many people, and when people feel neglected, what they tend to…

Steps to forgiveness

I will say that forgiveness is like the final part – it is not the first part. What I will say about forgiveness is that first you have to heal yourself – you have to put yourself back together, you have to make sure you are okay. What Mary wants you to know is that…

Feeling one has to change themselves to get their needs met

What I would like to share with you is that there is a big difference between needing to actually change yourself and your behaviour, and only a need to go within in order to clear what is in the way of having your needs met. A lot of people mistake the two – they believe…

How to develop confidence

The answer to this is very simple – the ways to develop confidence are to go and live life, do what you love, be with people who make you feel good, make choices that make you feel elevated, move away from people who put you down, be with people who encourage you in what you…

Qualities of different races

I will say that there is a higher spiritual reason, and that is all about bloodline. I want you to know that certain races have certain qualities to them – different races have different attributes, so when you are born a certain race it is that you will have stronger qualities in certain directions. So…

Working with shadow

Working with the shadow is going to really help you to go forwards without feeling hijacked by life. I would like each one of you to give some attention to the shadow parts of your being and life, to make sure that you are clearing what is necessary, rather than avoid going there, and by…

Having a sense of humour

There is a lot to be said for having a good sense of humour. I will go as far as to say that people who can laugh about themselves and their life experiences are the people who make the most progress most quickly, but what I will also say about humour is that it can…

Reaching personal and cosmic goals

Some of you have certain goals – they may be around quite simple matters, such as physical health, fitness – goals which are very personal to you; or you may have larger goals such as to create something much bigger than yourself, for the greater good – but whatever your goal is you are able…

On feeling victimised

Some of you have felt quite victimised by life, by people, by circumstances – some of you feel like a victim inside – you don’t feel very empowered when it comes to all aspects of your life. You feel something is missing in you to be able to tackle life head-on, to cope with scenarios…

On not feeling good enough

I want to cover another issue, which is a strong feeling inside that whatever you do in life is not quite good enough, and this comes from feelings you have inherited partly from your lineage, and partly from lifetimes where you have had a lot on your plate, and not enough energy to deal with…