Relationships Course – Session 3
0:43 True potential of relationships
1:56 Realising people are not compatible
3:25 Bringing up trauma
4:36 How relationships work
5:46 Exchanging information and creating more light
7:04 Express parts of yourself more deeply
7:57 Self-realisation
8:50 Receiving healing in deficiencies
11:04 New ways of coming together
13:42 Energy is favouring soul connections
15:42 Being open to being with the right people
17:39 Chaos in the past
19:32 Opening doors for bigger things to happen
20:16 Experience of true oneness
21:12 Doing miraculous things
22:13 Putting in effort to try to create connection
24:12 Feeling lack inside, becoming content
26:12 Attracting the right relationships
27:45 Embodying a particular aspect of consciousness
29:27 Tools to become your true self and attract the right people
30:34 Motivations in connecting with others
31:59 Bringing in light from Kuthumi
35:27 Going deeper into your desire to connect with others
38:51 Transmuting places of lack
48:49 Trauma from childhood
49:44 Creating light from the true self
51:09 Going deeper into your aspect of consciousness
53:42 Focusing on a part of your body
56:06 Turning on a part of you connecting from true light
59:52 Doing practices daily
1:00:42 Places in need are automatically fulfilled
1:01:37 Resonance from the true self
1:02:28 Don't worry about being popular on Earth
1:04:36 Being prepared for changes in your life
1:06:19 Closing prayer
So just like to say thank you, Father, Mother, for your love, for your light, for your healing, for all that's needed in this moment, so we may move forward in oneness with you on all levels of our lives, all levels of our being. Thank you, Father, Mother, in your name, may this be done. Amen.
I would like you to know that what I'm seeing at the moment is that energies are very much about going deeper into relationships in a way where the true potential of relationships is able to be explored. So this is a time where people want to go deeper, a time where people are no longer interested in pursuing relationships with people, where the energy becomes negative, very much about trying to constantly sort out problems. Perhaps it is even like this at the moment that people are feeling inside so much that they want relationships that are light and much more about all the positive energies which are possible to be exchanged between people that they are choosing to walk away from anything that feels to them is negative, or of a frequency that is going into things which are not harmonious, which are not beneficial for the two people involved.
So one example is being in relationship with someone, where there is a constant sense that there is an issue that is never really resolved, even through conversation, and after a while, it is that there is an understanding that there is incompatibility, and sometimes it is very much that two people are not meant to be in each other's lives, that their path is very different to each other's, that there is something that one is doing that is the complete opposite of what the other needs to be doing, and when they come together, there is always conflict, because the two people want to go in different directions. There can even be a sense of feeling inside that you are not able to be with that person, because if you are, it literally takes you away from who you are. It is also good for you to know that there are relationships which exist, which are very much about two people coming together for the purpose of actually realising they are not compatible, that it can be the contract between people to meet in order to realise that they are just not right for each other, and that is the lesson that they are learning – that they are not well suited for each other.
It is also good for you to know that there are some people in life who will bring up a lot of trauma in you, and that is because the purpose of that relationship is to show you where you are wounded. So it may be that you collide with someone who has a particular energy that brings you to a point of feeling extremely vulnerable, traumatised, unable to function. It may be that their energy is perhaps quite harsh, heavy, in some way negative, and you feel it very deeply. So the purpose of that relationship can show you where you are wounded, where you are affected by those energies, and as you go deeper into this and clear it, you will then be shown the true purpose of the relationship, which may be simply to show you that, or it may be something else actually as well, perhaps to show you that that person is compatible, but there was something to clear first.
So I am saying all this to give you different scenarios today. What I am exploring with you are the ways that relationships are able to really go much deeper, where there is a lot of light that can be created, and this is a subject that some of you are familiar with, but most of you here are still exploring this – you may not really have had much experience of this yet. So what I would like to go into is first how relationships work. So when you are connecting to another person, you will find that there are areas between you that naturally come together where there is natural harmony, compatibility, and those areas can be places that you have worked on, and so has the other person, and in those areas where you are compatible, and where there is light as well – true light – what you will find is that there is more life that can be created by coming together.
So it may be you are very well accomplished when it comes to being able to understand a certain area of life, a certain aspect of yourself – perhaps it may even be something quite earthly, such as understanding very deeply how to care for yourself, body-wise, understanding a lot about diet, good nutrition, looking after your body, getting enough rest, regulating your nervous system, general self care. And when you come together with someone else who also has a lot of light in this area, you are able to exchange information and create more light, deeper understanding. So in this way, you come together, perhaps for this purpose alone, to create light in this area, both for yourself, but also for the planet, because the light you create together will have an immediate effect on others, automatically. And it may even be there is something that you are able to do together on a practical level with this.
But there is also something else going on here, however, and that is when you come together in this way, you also have a sense inside that you are able to express a part of yourself more deeply, and through that expression, parts of you come to life more, and new parts emerge. So there is potential here for you to grow as a person, to explore deeper, deeper depths of what you know in this area, on a soul level, receive more information from your higher self, so this part can come to life more and more by having a very positive relationship with another person who also has light in this area.
So what I will say is this applies to every area of your body, your being, where you have found light, and then you collide with another who has light in the same area or similar areas, you have the potential of creating light together, and this light can be used for self-realisation, for going deeper into yourself, what you are all about, finding out more, opening up new parts of yourself, that that can actually be the sole purpose of the relationship, or it may be that you can do bigger things together and go much further. But generally it will be that there is something highly beneficial that occurs.
There is another type of relationship that also exists, and that is where two people who have a certain area within them that is deficient in energy, that is lacking where there is an issue, come together, and when they come together in the spirit – so when their higher selves guide them together, and then by communing, they realise they share the same deficiency, it is very powerful what is able to happen. So it is not always that you need to have light in a particular area in order for that area to be nourished. So what can happen when your higher self brings you together with someone who has the same deficiency as you, is that when you are together in the light of oneness, and you both recognise you have a particular deficiency, you are able to actually both receive healing in that moment, because there is something. else that occurs as well – that where two people have the same need and come together in the light of oneness, it is possible for the energies to be enhanced, the energies of light that you are able to collaborate on a higher self level, your angels and guides can come together, and there is a lot of light that is able to be created for both of you to be healed in this area. And that is something that is very much what happens often in group energies, where people come together with the same issue in the light of oneness, and there is great power there, great potential for that issue to be healed, because there are so many higher energies there, so much intention, prayer, energy created between you in the field. So it is good for you to know this as well.
There is something else I would like to share today which may be new information for you, and that is, in the new age, in the new Earth, there will be a lot going on around actually being able to really go much further and deeper with relationships of light – so there will be new ways of actually coming together, and one of these ways will actually involve being with another person, and instead of going very deep into the physical aspect of life – for example, coming together to have a home, a family, to create a life that is very earthly, which is actually what did happen in the old age – that generally people came together and the energies would take them towards the physical more than anything else. So where there was compatibility between two people, for example, as friends, most likely they would then do things together on the Earth, perhaps go places, do things that they both enjoy, and often it was also earthly activities that would bring people together. So this is something that has been really what has been dictating relationships for a long time – perhaps not for all people, but for many people, and generally, it would be that when you collided with someone who you had a much deeper connection with, your earthly lives may separate you, because life was very much about living in a physical way. It may be that it was very hard to actually be with the people who you had deeper connections with. It may even be that the family you were born into that really was so different that it would separate you from those you were more deeply connected to, and that is because there was so much going on when it came to the earthly aspect of life, where there were so many things to be resolved, where you were born into families, where there were deep issues that were carried over from other lives, things to really work with, such as poverty, survival issues – a lot of 3D issues, so to speak.
So what is happening now is all these things are being resolved – so all the issues you have had for many lives, all the things you have been really working with for a long time now, are being resolved, and what is happening now is people are really going to a new level in themselves, and therefore it is not so much now about the physical aspect of life. So people are not coming together, perhaps because they need to be with someone who has a lot of something, like a lot of wealth, in order to then create a family with them. Perhaps it was more that people would come together because it really suited them on an earthly level, there was compatibility there with what they wanted to create. So as these things are being resolved, people are finding their own connection again to themselves, their ability to actually live on Earth and feel absolutely well in terms of being able to survive and look after themselves well, they are no longer so fixated on the 3D, and looking for deeper connections. As a result, a lot of people who were previously, in one way or another, in a very 3D lifestyle, are coming out of this, and it means that generally, the energy is favouring soul connections, people coming together because there is a deeper compatibility on a level that is actually beyond the Earth, beyond space and time, beyond this earthly incarnation, and because of this, what is going on as well is people are looking for each other.
So there is actually two things going on which you may find interesting, and one is generally people are more open to being with people they really are connecting with on a deeper level, that people are willing to even let go of their earthly life and all the things that they used to hold on to in order to be with the right people. The second thing is more interesting, and that is, as a result, there is a general energy that is here on Earth at the moment where people are colliding with each other quite easily, actually, because there is so much of this energy that it has been created. So as a result, as soon as you are open to being with the right people, as soon as you are feeling secure in yourself, so as soon as you come out of your own karmic energies, perhaps of survival, perhaps of being in one way or another, very upset about something in particular, or trying to resolve something that has been in your family line or with you for a long time – as soon as you step out of these energies, which are very much about resolving problems that have been here for you on Earth for a long time, and as soon as you are open and have the capacity to be with people who you are feeling deeply connected to on a soul level – and by capacity, I mean as soon as you feel you have the space within you to allow this in – it happens, that there is no time delay anymore.
So what I'm really trying to say is that the Earth favours deeper connections of oneness. The Earth is already favouring this energy, that you are simply coming to a place within where you can actually experience this, but the light is already here. And the reason I am saying this is interesting, because in the past, it wasn't the case that often, if you did collide with people who you had a very deep connection with, there would be chaos, because earthly life was very much around the 3D and 3D needs, requirements, and so there would be chaos, because your life and the life of the other may not be compatible, and there would be, perhaps, things to let go of, people to even walk away from, in order to be with each other. So this has changed now, and for this reason, there will no longer be the struggle that was there in the past. So it is also about updating yourself, knowing that in order to experience true, deep connections, there is no longer going to be chaos, there is no longer going to be constant hurdles – it is going to be an easier, smoother process. For some people, there will be absolutely no problem whatsoever, because they have worked on themselves enough, already overcome the obstacles, the problems within – their life is already in harmony with their true self, and all is well.
And this is really the sort of connections that will form on in New Earth – the connections will be deep, they will be effortless, they will be relatively problem free. And what I will say is that this actually opens up doors for much bigger things to happen, for people to have enormous awakenings together, for doors to open within very fast when you collide with the right people. So there will be a lot of expansion, growth through relating, relationships, and connecting with the right people.
And it is also important for you to know that through this, what you are able to ultimately experience is something that you may not have experienced on Earth before, which is true oneness – to really know what it means to be one with one another on Earth, and this experience can only be fully embodied on all levels. It can only be truly embodied once you have actually gone deep enough to be able to actually come together with others in this spirit, with enough cleared, so there is a flow of energy that is able to be between you and another that is consistent.
I will also say that as this is actually experienced by people, there will be new things that open up on Earth, things you have not experienced before, such as, for example, people coming together and actually being so much in harmony with each other that what they are able to, such as come together, and by simply just being together, things are resolved automatically, that wherever their attention goes, problems are solved. That is what I see –that where there is true oneness and harmony between people on a very deep level, then a lot is resolved by just being with each other and focusing on something just for a few moments – that is the power of oneness on Earth.
I also will say that oneness is really not the same as being in a place where you are trying really hard to be with someone, and see yourself in them. It is not the same as trying to understand someone, trying to be in harmony with someone, making an effort, constantly trying and doing things that you believe will create more harmony, perhaps even things like organising activities that bring you closer together, doing things which are physical, practical, or even things that you believe are thoughtful, kind, such as giving gifts, appreciation, sharing, kind words, that all these things are symptoms of being connected to someone, but these things do not actually create connection. And this is another thing that people will come to understand in time, because there are a lot of people who have given out a lot of energy to others because they have been wanting to have a deeper connection – perhaps it has been a general feeling of wanting to be more connected to people, perhaps it has been personal to particular people, where they have put in effort to try to create connection, harmony, oneness, where they have been really kind, thoughtful, and shared what they have within that is really very light and harmonious, but they have still felt that ultimately there is no real harmony, that something is not achieved, and this can build up a feeling inside of not wanting to give any more.
And what I will say about this sort of energy is that it is often something that comes from a very deep place where the person is trying because they feel some lack inside. So even if they are given from a place of light and they are genuine in what they are doing, there can be a deeper part that really would like something to be there. And what I will say is this is also dissolving away at this time, and it is bringing up a lot in people, a lot of deep trauma even, of giving and not receiving, of trying hard, and what I will say is once this energy is fully dissolved – this energy of really craving connection with another, of trying to create it, of putting light in, actually sharing the best of yourself with another in the attempt of creating a deeper connection – once this has fully dissolved from the root, the core of where this comes from, then what happens is that a person becomes very content in their own energy. They start to realise that they can be looking after themselves better, caring for themselves, fulfilling their own desires, looking after themselves in a way that they have never done before, and as you go into this type of frequency, it is normally the frequency people are in just before they then start colliding with the people who are truly right for them, where there is no effort involved, where there is only true connection and light.
So it is good for you to know that there may be those of you in this group who are hearing this, who recognise this in yourselves, giving out a lot to others, a lot of time and energy, and underneath this, there has been a deep desire to be connected to people, to be part of things. And as this is really gone very deeply into, there may be things that you realise about yourself, such as a sense of always having felt a bit separate, or feeling a bit alone, or feeling like you really want to feel inside met by someone, and as these deeper aspects are explored, and you start to really go within and allow the light within to fulfil these parts, you are then focused on you. And as you focus on you, you start to then attract the right relationships to yourself, the right people, and the universe actually shows you then who is really right for you, what to go forwards with. And these relationships will feel easy, effortless – they will give you energy. So that is something I would like you to know.
So I would like to go into one more thing today, which is very much about relationships and connecting from the light, and that is, you are all part of the oneness. You are all part of something that is much larger – it is like you come in as an aspect of oneness, and this aspect in its entirety, has a particular vibration to it. So all of you are, in one way or another, a particular vibration, and this vibration, of course, changes over time, but there is a particular aspect of consciousness that you each, in one way or another, embody, and when you are really in that aspect, that is when you are most attractive to people who are right for you. And the reason I want to go into this is that there is a lot going on in the world at the moment around authenticity, being who you are, letting go of what is considered attractive on all levels, whether it is physical, emotional, on whatever level it is. And it is the case that when you are embodied as who you really are, the aspect of consciousness that you truly are, that is when you really are most attractive to people who are meant to be with you in this life.
And I am saying all this because I would like to give you some tools today to really become your true self, and also attract all the right people. So I am going into this because I would like to activate this in each one of you today, the aspect of consciousness that you truly are, so this part of you may grow and expand, and as you attune daily to this aspect that you are, you start to light up from inside – it is who you really are, ultimately, and you all come in as a particular aspect. Perhaps the aspect you are has no words to it. It may be that you cannot easily define it, but you are each something that is unique and that is really who you are, and who you were always meant to become on Earth. So it is good for you to know this.
So what I would like to do now is bring in some tools for you that you can use on a daily basis, if you wish, in order to go deeper into all of this. So I will start with something very simple, and that is, I would like to help all of you, first and foremost, to really go more deeply into yourself and just get a sense, first of all, about your motivations to do with connecting with others, and perhaps, as you do this, you may feel inside that it is coming from a place of wanting to connect because you feel a bit alone, or you feel a bit lost. But first I want to go a bit deeper, and do something very brief with you around actually going into the parts of you where you are connecting from a place of lack, and just bring in light. And this is a very good practice to do daily. So I will start with this.
So what I'm doing to start with, is bringing in light and the light I'm bringing in is a very soft light that comes through from Kuthumi in this moment.
And what I'm doing now is going deeper with you, and going into a very deep part, which is about your desire to connect with others.
And what I am doing now is helping you to go into a place where those areas are able to be transmuted, and by transmuted I mean there is light put in, and they are transformed. So you may get a sense that there are parts of you that want to connect with another, because it gives you a sense of feeling more secure, or a sense inside of feeling like you are part of things – but I would like to go into the areas in you where you are connecting with others for reasons which are very much to do with places in you where you feel a lack, you feel a problem. And what I will say about clearing those places with light, is that where there is light, those places are automatically met – so it is not that by having a deep need, and being in one way or another met there, there is an issue there – but the issue is that where you are actually emanating a vibration of need. And then when you are connecting with another, it is that you are connecting with people who are not quite right for you, because it is more about need and what you are really in need of on a level that is to do with your being being able to feel safe, secure, well, and then, in this way, you are not necessarily colliding with people you have deeper connections with. And it also can result in colliding with people who can't really even fulfil your need, because where you are coming from lack, you will find more lack on Earth. I hope I am making sense – so it is just about bringing these parts into the light. That is all.
So I will say that as I work on all of you, I am going very deep into the root, and when I do this, it may be that you feel a lot coming up, because I will say for some of you, it may be that you have a lot going on inside around trauma from childhood, which makes you feel inside that you need certain things, and it then sends out a vibration like this, where you attract people who can perhaps fulfil your needs on one level, but are not compatible with you on other levels. So it is all about being able to bring light in here, so you are able to be with the right people, where your needs are automatically met – but the connections you have with people are really very much about the true self.
I am also saying all this out loud because it really is a time where people are able to let go of the sorts of connections they have had in the past – that it is no longer about simply being with people where there is a need that is met. It really is about depth at the moment, and this is where the light is – it is when you connect from the true self that light is created. It is no longer a time of trying to find ways of being with deficiencies you have, coping mechanisms, strategies, and even if you are perhaps very aware that you have certain deficiencies, what you will be doing, on some level, is finding ways of actually being able to have your needs met in certain areas, so that you are able to keep going forwards. So it is really time to look at these deficiencies, work on them, and I also will say that when you are working on your deficiencies, the universe will really assist you, accelerate you on your path so that these parts can be healed, especially at this time.
What I would like to do next is go deeper into the aspect of consciousness that you truly are. And I want to just open this up more for you, make you more aware of it, activate the energy, perhaps even bring in more light here, into your body and being so you feel it even more that it is stronger in you. So I will do this now.
What I would like to you to do as this is done, is perhaps focus on a part of your body, a part where you feel that this aspect of consciousness in this moment is able to be most activated in.
So I will say this part is complete, and what I would like to do now is one more thing, that is very much about helping you to really be in a place where you can connect with the right people from a deeper part and experience all the benefits that come with connecting from a place of oneness, and what I would like to do is actually go a bit deeper with you and actually turn this on for you, and what I mean by this is turn on the part of you that is really able to, in this moment, connect from a place of true light. So it may be that you experience this in your heart, and your heart a place where it is really very much about connecting with people from pure light. Some of you may actually feel it more in your sacral – but the reason you will each feel it in a different place is because you each have a different quality of oneness that you embody, and for some of you here, it is like you embody a very deep aspect of the of the heart consciousness – so this is where you feel it. For others, it will be the sacral, because you are embodying a very deep aspect of consciousness that is about embodied connection to others, which will come through you more as an energy that feels very creative, perhaps a certain type of frequency that comes through – so you will each experience this in a different part of your body.
So I will say this is done, and what I will say about all these practices is that they are good to do daily, and one way of being in the light of oneness and doing them is actually to be in your own energy first and then to ask for the energies to open up, activate. Also, it is good for you to know that as you focus on parts of your body as well, you receive clarity. So when you are looking at the places in you which are deficient, where you are perhaps looking for connection, out of need, you may be guided to certain areas of your body and focus on them for a few moments.
I also will say that where the connection is one of true light, what you will also notice is that the places in you which are in need are automatically fulfilled, but it is that your motivation is coming from a deeper place. I hope this makes sense. So all the places you have of need, all the places which have never, perhaps, received what they have really needed to be well, they will automatically be met in the right way. But the connection itself, the primary motivation will be that you are connecting because there is a resonance from your from your self, your true self. That is really what I am saying to you.
I also want you to know that resonance from the true self is beyond time and space – so these are the sorts of relationships that last. Even when you have periods of separation, you can come back together and carry on as normal, so to speak, where you left off. That is how it works with true self connection, because it is beyond time and space. I also will say that these types of connections will be highly favoured on Earth by everybody sooner or later. So as a result, people will have a willingness to engage from this place no resistance, and that is going to make it very easy to connect with the right people.
My final message is, do not ever worry about being popular on Earth, and I want to briefly mention this because for some of you here, you have equated popularity with being, in one way or another, more nourished, perhaps having more energy, even receiving more of something, because you are popular with people or in something you are doing. And this, again, is something that is very much from the old age, and in the New Earth it is very much going to be that, rather than popularity being pursued, it is the opposite – it is about depth of connection, it is about depth, and this will mean that perhaps people will have fewer friends, even, but the connections will be much deeper. So generally, there will also be something that happens where people who have been very popular, have had many friends, many contacts, may find that they have much less, but there is more energy there, more light, more meaning, more that is created from the connections they have. And it may even be that those of you who are very much a sort of people who have not felt like you are very well-liked, will have the opposite experience – that as you go deeper into your true self and are meeting others who are very much connecting from this place with you, and there is compatibility, you may actually notice you are compatible with more people than you realised – that actually that you are the sort of people who are really connecting with a wide range of people.
So do not be surprised if this happens, but just be prepared for changes in your life by connecting with your true self. It is through this you find out who you really are – you will find out actually through life whether you are really the sort of person who is meant to be connected to many, or whether you are just meant to be connected to a few. You will find out the sort of soul you are, the aspect of consciousness, the light you embody, and perhaps for you, your true self does take you to connecting to many from a true self energy, because who you are on a soul level is someone who connects many types of people together, people from different places, and creates a bridge that your true self naturally connects with the true self of others across a wide range of different types of people, different lifestyle choices, different places, and that is because you were created with this particular frequency in order to do this – to be very broad, wide in your ability to really be with people, to be with different aspects of consciousness, so to speak. And it is really good for you to know that whoever you really are will bring you the greatest fulfilment. That is all. I have no more to say.
I will say a prayer on behalf of all of you. May the light that is within you take you forwards, and may you keep receiving all that you need on all levels of your life, all levels of your being. May this be done. Amen.